40th Birthday Puzzle Nuzzle

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Across
  1. 3. Working title for a mid-life memoir
  2. 6. Wailing and flailing from a really good nailing or keening and screaming from an obscene bean cleaning; named for an Irish spirit
  3. 12. Court disaster?
  4. 13. A story which is “not yet a fully realized Marxist critique”
  5. 15. Architectural icons colloquially known as the Wilco Towers
  6. 17. An arguably misnomered spa
  7. 21. Smuggling, publishing, or campaigning
  8. 22. Your personal portmanteau for a night alone
  9. 24. It’s really just adult nap time
  10. 25. You leap in this keep
  11. 28. Steakhouse or Subaru
  12. 29. Patron of the hearts?
  13. 30. Without anchor or mooring
  14. 31. Descendants from the royal line?
  15. 34. Despite its enormity, this cocktail is trivial
  16. 35. Longtime companion despite being full of hot air
Down
  1. 1. Site of our second first
  2. 2. There are pros and cons when joining
  3. 4. The subterranean bar from “Care for an Adventure?”
  4. 5. Novel by Orson Scott Card or a laser pointer?
  5. 7. Anno domini high definition, init.
  6. 8. This petitionary stationary read: "Please keep it down. We can all hear you."
  7. 9. Derived from the Latin for calm, tranquil
  8. 10. The world record is 134 in an hour (pff, amateurs)
  9. 11. The unlikely lover of dolphins
  10. 14. Muddle or befuddle
  11. 16. Your OkCupid nom de plume
  12. 18. Blessed with the gift of crab?
  13. 19. False front for a clothing store?
  14. 20. Two rabbits shared this name in “Loss and Found”
  15. 23. This place was full of shadows before it went dark
  16. 26. Where Molly was intense in tents
  17. 27. Girls ___ ___: Popular video series (in)famous for its late-night infomercials
  18. 32. Scientifically known as laryngeal prominence or a bite from which leads to an Edenic eviction
  19. 33. Your Vampire character’s given name