40th Birthday Puzzle Nuzzle

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Across
  1. 4. Steakhouse or Subaru
  2. 8. Your Vampire character’s given name
  3. 11. The subterranean bar from “Care for an Adventure?”
  4. 12. Derived from the Latin for calm, tranquil
  5. 13. Working title for a mid-life memoir
  6. 16. Architectural icons colloquially known as the Wilco Towers
  7. 18. Novel by Orson Scott Card or a laser pointer?
  8. 19. Site of our second first
  9. 20. It’s really just adult nap time
  10. 26. Muddle or befuddle
  11. 27. Without anchor or mooring
  12. 28. Place with dips and salsa?
  13. 30. Where Molly was intense in tents
  14. 32. Despite its enormity, this cocktail is trivial
  15. 34. There are pros and cons when joining
  16. 35. Smuggling, publishing, or campaigning
  17. 36. Your OkCupid nom de plume
Down
  1. 1. Longtime companion despite being full of hot air
  2. 2. You leap in this keep
  3. 3. Wailing and flailing from a really good nailing or keening and screaming from an obscene bean cleaning; its namesake is an Irish spirit
  4. 5. The unlikely lover of dolphins
  5. 6. This place was full of shadows before it went dark
  6. 7. Girls ___ ___: Popular video series (in)famous for its late-night commercials
  7. 9. A story which is “not yet a fully realized Marxist critique”
  8. 10. Court disaster?
  9. 14. Descendants from the royal line?
  10. 15. Scientifically known as laryngeal prominence, or a bite from which leads to an Edenic eviction
  11. 17. This petitionary stationary read: "Please keep it down. We can all hear you."
  12. 21. Two rabbits shared this name in “Loss and Found”
  13. 22. Insensible due to continual climaxing
  14. 23. Patron of the hearts?
  15. 24. Blessed with the gift of crab?
  16. 25. The world record is 134 in an hour (pff, amateurs)
  17. 26. False front for a clothing store?
  18. 29. An arguably misnomered spa
  19. 31. Your personal portmanteau for a night alone
  20. 33. Anno domini high definition, init.