60th Birthday (Difficulty: extreme)

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Across
  1. 4. Birthday platter
  2. 5. Pelican brief author
  3. 6. Travel snack
  4. 9. Italian fried dough
  5. 12. 8 across, mispronounced
  6. 14. Manifest actor, Melissa
  7. 15. "One, two, three___" Hagar tune
  8. 17. Aruba capital city
  9. 18. Military shelter, you'll find one on the golf course
  10. 19. "Get ___"; or structure used in timber-framing
Down
  1. 1. Ramen chef headware
  2. 2. What you are, age wise
  3. 3. Your most vinted
  4. 7. Alone season 8 winner
  5. 8. Fresh catch; or, articulation of extreme glee
  6. 10. Basement sport
  7. 11. One shouldn't be one, per the t-shirt
  8. 13. Cole lives here
  9. 16. Former Foos drummer, Taylor