Happy Birthday Dan!

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Across
  1. 3. you’ve fucked it you’ve absolutely fucked it (3,3,4,4)
  2. 5. Island where Lily is confused initially (6)
  3. 7. spread ice pack over front of head to find pulse (8)
  4. 10. dog theatregoer proves helpful for us all (3,7,4)
  5. 14. some bird is seen to steal in a hood (5)
  6. 15. some sent out for pudding (4,4)
  7. 18. bar rejecting echo and smell of pubescent (3)
  8. 19. coffee topping from cream (5)
  9. 21. some men den wildly, a sperm thief? (5,5)
  10. 22. evil old woman considered frightful or ugly (3)
  11. 23. game of thrones, I heard (5)
Down
  1. 1. physician goes around hotel to find soup (3)
  2. 2. East End café — I clip eel, oddly prepared (1,8)
  3. 4. for example, how many months have 28 days (5,8)
  4. 6. greens say they’ve lost the ability to think (10)
  5. 8. Mondo singing lemur playing with domino (2,5)
  6. 9. we can’t accept gifts from someone we’ve officially rebuked so… (3,2)
  7. 11. get mother started on the tea, buddy (4)
  8. 12. makers in favour of remaking crude (9)
  9. 13. two servings of liquor? I’m game! (3,5)
  10. 16. excellent publicity for a relative (7)
  11. 17. system of government characterised by extreme dictatorship (7)
  12. 20. proceeding instrument? (4)