Happy birthday Fabian, my love!

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Across
  1. 3. what you say when you tummy is rumbling
  2. 6. birthday we are celebrating today
  3. 7. another word for the word we said cheerfully while planning it
  4. 9. essential food to bring to Getaway
  5. 12. color everyone associates with me
  6. 14. writes really weird books that we enjoy
  7. 15. a thoughtful gift that tried to kill you
  8. 16. man is never this
  9. 17. we’re in this kind of relationship
  10. 19. somewhere we won’t take the kids
  11. 21. how we like our drinks
  12. 25. something you tend to do when things get tough
  13. 26. a better word than wife
  14. 29. an object we got so Ethan would stop confusing cities, states, and countries
  15. 30. board game everyone but me enjoys
  16. 32. music that makes me think of things, a hint you didn’t get
  17. 34. town I supposedly hate to leave
  18. 36. a country you’d really like to visit
  19. 37. another date to celebrate next week
  20. 38. the book genre that defines the difference between you and me
Down
  1. 1. we take turns making this every day
  2. 2. a country we visited together, whose flag I knew from living in london
  3. 4. a book we both read recently
  4. 5. something we bought in 2019
  5. 8. the length of a good breakfast
  6. 10. board game the whole family enjoys
  7. 11. _______ chance you’ll get me pregnant
  8. 13. something I did on this day in a previous year
  9. 18. Ethan’s favorite / all our kids
  10. 20. number of years ago we met
  11. 22. a country we visited together with n-1 kids
  12. 23. something we do every morning without fail, and it would be really shocking if I did it without you
  13. 24. word with a sound at the end, said cheerfully while planning for it
  14. 27. an unlikely place for us to have met and married
  15. 28. why did we come here on vacation? It wasn’t that bad though
  16. 30. something you want but definitely not on cake
  17. 31. ________ more years it would be nice to spend together
  18. 33. color we tried to dye your hair
  19. 35. you like these? I offended you with my surprise
  20. 39. nickname for a cafe we love