Reveal the clue to the Gender

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Across
  1. 3. Country of pasta
  2. 4. Colour of our Chinese skin
  3. 6. bro or kaofu
  4. 8. What's adjacent to the beach
Down
  1. 1. What fruit us British born chinese associate with ourselves
  2. 2. What you do with your hands when you see armpits
  3. 5. Opposite to 'close' or 'shut'
  4. 7. What fruit kaofu forgets to each day