Safe Environment

5. Safe people _____ your boundaries, and don’t violate the safety rules.
6. It’s not OK to keep a secret about _____.
8. Safe _____ are fun, temporary, meant to be shared and usually make people happy.
9. It’s never too late to talk to a _____ about something that is bothering me.
10. When people ask us to keep unsafe secrets, it’s a _____
11. Keeping _____ about an unsafe secret only protects the person who is causing the harm, which allows them to keep on doing what they want to that person, and maybe others.
12. It IS OK to break a _____ when it comes to the safety rules
13. Revealing about unsafe secrets is the best way to get help and start relieving the stress. It takes _____ to speak up about unsafe secrets.
14. You always need to _____ scary problems or unsafe secrets to a safe adult.

1. Unsafe _____ can be harmful, and can hurt others
2. Even if it feels like you have a really big problem, there’s nothing that is so big that you can’t get _____.
3. When I feel _____ about something, I need to talk to a safe adult
4. Safe adults should never ask you questions about what your _____ look like, unless you’ve disclosed discomfort or pain, or it’s someone like a parent or doctor who’s helping to ensure that you’re safe and healthy.
7. You deserve respect and have a right to be safe—and feel safe, especially in the context of a _____.
10. When it comes to a situation where boundaries have been violated, someone is hurt or has the potential to be hurt, we should keep the information _____ insofar as we only tell the people who need to know to help us (and them) stay safe—such as our safe adults or other people who can help us
15. Saying “_____” is a powerful boundary, and should be honored, especially when it comes to your body and personal boundaries