Aswin birthday!

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Across
  1. 4. An Odyssey gifted me this (6,3)
  2. 6. Do you take this woman...? (1,2)
  3. 7. go to our first vacation around our second vacation (7)
  4. 8. mix up lard to get first affection (4)
  5. 9. take out the artery and order the veal (4)
Down
  1. 1. A first (minus first few mins) experience together (4,6,4)
  2. 2. trouble au rust for lovable bull (6)
  3. 3. my tall french sakkalathi (8)
  4. 5. she loves a cuban when you take her out (6)