Chapt 8

5. rules that govern your workplace
6. you see what the person looks like
7. relationships, friendships held together by adherence to certain rules
8. attracted to people that give you awards
12. stage that sees weakening of bonds between the parties & represents the downside of relationship progression
13. holds that people from relationships with those they consider attractive
17. the actions of one person have an impact on the other
19. your mate would look, act, & think very much like you
20. stage sense of mutuality of being connected develops

1. uses the ideas of social exchange but goes a step further & claims that you develop
2. refers to what you actually do in response to jealous feelings & emotions
3. physical closeness
4. theory argues that people in a relationship experience dynamic tensions between pairs of opposing motives
9. involve the feelings you have when you see your partner
10. stage is interpersonal
11. involve your suspicious thinking, worrying
14. general idea of the kinds of rewards & profits that you feel you ought to get out of such a relationship
15. both friendship and romance
16. sometimes people are attracted to their opposites
18. negative emotion