HaPpY 2023 Birthday, Wendy! (You are all these, plus!)

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Across
  1. 2. With assistance, crooked lip partially healed, but eye, it was reported, got poked out (4, follows 9A)
  2. 4. Scholar hesitates after study (7, follows 8A)
  3. 5. Normally careful thrills seeker counted the tines on a broken rake with her wrist, carelessly snapping off the top of it (10,4-5)
  4. 8. Crazy golf on the meandering Nile takes forever! Well, a generation. (4-4)
  5. 9. Will, adding some ingredients to mixed pate, cc:ed Ed out of desire to be agreeable (7,2,6)
  6. 11. Befuddled ten dined with pen, becoming self-reliant (11)
Down
  1. 1. Relaxed attitude could be fabricated talent or?? (8)
  2. 3. Misshaped diamond bred receptivity to new ideas (5-6)
  3. 6. Confused listener and I bounce back and never give up (9)
  4. 7. Healthy and strong, like a fiddle? (3)
  5. 10. Keen Edward decapitates head of popular social media site (10)