Happy Birthday Papa!

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Across
  1. 4. the pressure cooker
  2. 6. the drama queen
  3. 8. your alleged 'second wife'
  4. 9. the name of your old blog
  5. 12. a joy that we share
  6. 13. a drink you can't live without
  7. 15. the family eldest's curse
  8. 16. something we three read all the time
  9. 18. a mutual favourite author
  10. 19. the app you can't get enough of
Down
  1. 1. your favourite puzzle
  2. 2. an unimaginative name for a giant friend (that you gave away)
  3. 3. a favourite character for both of us
  4. 4. you spend more time with them than with us nowadays
  5. 5. the creator >:D
  6. 7. the newest addition to my plush collection
  7. 10. the destroyer
  8. 11. wakeup call by mumma everyday
  9. 12. the occasion for this celebration
  10. 14. something you don't play because of a petty reason
  11. 15. ___ Beans!
  12. 17. a life constant (and the subject of this puzzle)