Happy birthday!!

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Across
  1. 2. Like Flotsam and Jetsam, it can attack
  2. 4. Forbidden, but now frequently used
  3. 5. Placate, with some tea here and there
  4. 8. Cricketer warmer?
  5. 9. Happy weapon
  6. 10. Mexican eavesdropper?
  7. 12. Easy to construct first kiss
  8. 13. Mother-menagerie, or me, or you
  9. 14. Missing a yummy fried indian snack
  10. 16. I could have dragons too!
  11. 17. Our favorite kind of Jew
  12. 19. Ponder on the floss, say, staring at the stars
  13. 20. Slowly, sounds each day
  14. 22. United states ship in G.I., a good reason to fight!
Down
  1. 1. Prayer I messed up, big deal
  2. 3. If you gonna be a square you aint a gonna go nowhere!
  3. 6. First “date”
  4. 7. Tathastu…
  5. 9. Mobius, us
  6. 11. Not Ga not Kr, but…
  7. 12. Marsupial kiss
  8. 15. Response to I have to tell you something
  9. 18. Sort of a synonym for tathastu clue
  10. 21. Novel neckwear, so to speak, denial