things fall apart

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Across
  1. 8. part of the betrothal ceremony
  2. 9. the land of the brave
  3. 11. a string of waist beads
  4. 12. to welcome
  5. 14. a very small bird
  6. 15. a special kind of stone for the spirit world
  7. 18. is a ceremony
  8. 20. a family gathering daughters
Down
  1. 1. a musical instrument
  2. 2. worthless man
  3. 3. where assemblies or sports take place
  4. 4. a religious offence of a kind abhorred by everyone
  5. 5. and elder person
  6. 6. a curse or oath
  7. 7. court messenger
  8. 10. is our father
  9. 13. the large living quarters of the head of the family
  10. 16. showing off or bragging
  11. 17. murder or manslaughter
  12. 19. is a fever