Three years of we

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Across
  1. 4. A bohemian abode in Asheville
  2. 5. Garden fruit I (becky) love from ma head ____
  3. 8. The kids are finally asleep; let’s do “it”
  4. 9. Isabelle, Izzy, Iz, ____ (nickname)
  5. 11. “I’ll quit the burgers; just don’t make me give up ____”
  6. 12. Slow down, I'm not trying for [this]
  7. 15. How many blankies?
  8. 16. Just got paid; time to ___
  9. 18. “I want to meet your mom(s) A LOT, but darn this pandemic. Where to?”
  10. 19. Our first major appliance purchase (Alt clue: Like our love, it's electric and gets weekly action)
  11. 20. From “meh” to pregnancy super food
Down
  1. 1. Musical brothers (for kids), okay?
  2. 2. How am I, doc?
  3. 3. Location of the brunch that started it all
  4. 6. Things got steamy in these mountains
  5. 7. Us, before I and W
  6. 10. Where we met (gobble)
  7. 13. The best place on Earth to get a nap
  8. 14. Wesley, Wes, Wessy, ____
  9. 17. Little red star of most of the shows we watch now